The paths of amorous feelings in which men and women seek each other and travel together, in the hope of finding common goals that are as gratifying and satisfying as possible, if not perfect, are many and different. They are paths as old as the world. Despite this, even today and especially today, we are unable to understand the best way to choose them and live them well. Even today, and especially today, we have not learned to distinguish the paths that unite from those that divide; the paths that lead to understanding from those that lead to conflict. The paths that build civilizations and those that prepare barbarism. The paths that help human societies in their growth and those that lead to degeneration and conflict. Even today we are unable to find the best ways to travel them together, men and women, hand in hand, with mutual respect and availability, with mutual understanding and tenderness, without useless infatuations but also with a lot of care and attention towards the other. Without illusions, of course, but also with the right trust and hope. The author, while not wanting to give "recipes" on the best way to experience feelings and emotions of love, intends to clarify some fundamental questions: what is love and when does it arise? What is it for? Why do we fall in love? Who do we fall in love with? Why do we choose and live a certain type of love rather than another? Why do so many loves end? And finally, what are the behaviors and personal, couple, family and social contributions that facilitate understanding and what are the attitudes that lead to conflict and clash.

Emidio Tribulato, doctor, neuropsychiatrist and psychologist, currently directs the Logos Study Center in Messina and is a consultant for the U.C.I.P.E.M. Family Counseling Center in the same city. He has been involved in the prevention and treatment of situations of distress that affect minors, couples and families for over twenty years. Among his publications we remember: “Voglia di crescere”, “L’educazione negata”, “Mondo affettivo e mondo economico”.

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Conflicts and violence between the sexes are one of the worst evils of our time, because they upset the lives of millions of people, who instead would like and dream of seeking each other, finding each other and loving each other.
Who are the contenders? Where does the bitterness that sets them against each other come from, rather than next to each other, in each other's arms? How does the violence that humiliates, hurts and kills arise and develop? How can we prevent these conflicts and aggressions that also seriously damage the serenity and life of minors?
This essay tries to answer these and other questions that plague individuals, the mass media and society as a whole.

Emidio Tribulato, doctor, adult and child neuropsychiatrist, is a consultant for the UCIPEM Consultancy in Messina and currently directs the Logos ODV Study Center in Messina. The author has been involved for several years in prevention and treatment services for situations of distress that affect minors, couples and families.
Among his numerous publications we recall: “Autism and self-managed free play”, “Denied education”, “The child and the environment”, “Men and women at the crossroads”, “The emotional world and the economic world”.

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A young psychiatrist assistant fights to change for the better the terrible fate of the patients hosted in the worst ward of a Sicilian psychiatric hospital. At the same time, however, he is forced to face and solve the mystery that surrounds one of his strange and inscrutable patients: who has a name different from his real one; who is hospitalized for a non-existent disease; who does not want to be discharged but who is also involved in defamatory accusations. A human and social story where the author's autobiographical elements blend with the mystery, cruelty, suffering, friendship, love and redemption of his numerous and unforgettable characters.

The “Affective-relational world” and the “Economic and service world” are two worlds in which men and women are totally immersed. These two human realities both require special attention and care for their development and growth.
In these two worlds the use of time and space is different; the values ​​and gratifications are different; but above all what these realities produce in favor of individuals, families and societies is different.
In this essay, easy and pleasant to read, the author helps us discover all the characteristics that these two worlds have in common or make different, both indispensable for personal and social well-being, so neither of them should be neglected, neither of them should prevail over the other.
But if this does not happen, if the economic and service world prevails and crushes the affective-relational one, what are and will be the dramatic consequences that individuals and societies will have to face?